January 5, 2002

 

NEVER SAY NEVER AGAIN


This message is addressed to a particular group of God's people.

DAVID UNDER SAUL

There is a group of Christians who, in the past, have endured what David experienced under Saul. Your Saul may have been a biological one,  or a boss from work,  or even someone who you have worked under in ministry.

You have been so devastated by your experience that, in your heart, you've said to yourself, "Never again; there is no way that I would allow myself to be hurt by them again."


PAUL AND BARNABAS

"And there followed a sharp disagreement between them, so that they

separated from each other, and Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed away to Cyrpus. But Paul selected Silas and set out, being commended by the brethren to the grace of the Lord." (Acts 15:39-40)

There are others also who have gone through the same experience that Paul and Barnabas went through. This may be family, work, or ministry related.

You have been separated and, the once strong friendship/relationship, has been broken under very strained and difficult circumstances. The separation has been painful and traumatic, not just to you personally, but it has affected even your family. In your heart, you have said, "Never again,” or   “There is no way that I'm working or living  with that person again."

 

HEALED

For the past years, you have allowed the Lord to work His work of healing in your heart. You've released forgiveness to the people who have caused you hurt, and today you can talk about the event/events  without feelings of regret, or anger or pain overtaking you.

 

KEEPING DISTANCE

But the idea of living and working with them again is one thing that is

farthest from your mind at this time or something that you would not  want to consider. If you could have your own way, you would rather "these parties" remained in your past and stayed there forever."

DO NOT CLOSE THAT DOOR

The Holy Spirit has been reminding me these past days that the time has now come for those to whom this message will apply to start once more to open their hearts towards those people.

Whatever our personal desire regarding this, we are being challenged this day to begin to "prepare our hearts, even now, for the possibility of working again or being together with them in ways that we may not want or desire."

 

COMING BACK TO MIND

If in these past days you have been remembering the event and the people more often than you would prefer, that is a sign that the time has come to take another step of faith.

 

START IN YOUR PRAYER

We do not have to take any concrete action for now, but we can begin to prepare our hearts in prayer.

 

SURRENDER ALL TO GOD

"Heavenly Father, Your ways are not our ways neither are Your thoughts our thoughts.

"As nothing is impossible with You, even now, we are asking You to continue to speak more clarity to us Your people. You are the great and ultimate Healer. Begin now to finish the work of healing that You have done, are doing and will continue to do in each of our lives.

"Change our 'never again' and 'no way' to YES, YES, LORD. We will do what You want us to do and go where You want us to go and work and live with whoever You have chosen for us no matter who they will be. All we desire is to be in the center of Your will for us.

 "Thank You for forewarning us about this possibility and for preparing our hearts even now. We surrender this matter to You Father and we ask You to fill us with more of Your Spirit. In Christ’s name we ask all these. Amen!"

 

Blessings in Him,

Sis. Ching Co
Cebu City
Philippines

http://otim.org/ChingCo